You have no idea how many times I get asked the secret of success. Businesses, clients, schools. So here it is – I am giving it to you here and now. The three steps:
First you have to know yourself, deeply. Your purpose, what strengthens you and why you are here.
Then you have to notice your patterns, your belief systems, your perspectives and be prepared to see them for what they are – an overlay, white noise, stuff to be chosen and not to be accepted blindly.
And then you have to learn to do certain things well. Things that make a difference to how others relate to you and how you relate to yourself.
This is the process.
And the magic ingredients? Desire and courage.
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Stephen is one of the Ivy House Alumni, and when he completed the Programme he made a commitment to himself: take on and conquer the Brighton Half Marathon.
The game of doing the right thing on the surface, whilst at the same time making your real feelings perfectly clear, is as common as it is destructive.